When I sit here with my fingers on the keyboard, it is hard for me to see what it looks like from the other side of this blog – your side. Especially when we post articles that seem to get some folks’ dander up, I always wonder “what does it look like from that side of the screen”? I do my best to put myself in your shoes, but perhaps it’s time for you to step into my shoes.
So I’m going to let you come to this side of the screen and see what I go through when posting these “weightier” articles. Of course, I will remind you that I don’t always follow these steps, but it’s becoming more clear to me how incredibly important they are that I follow them before posting anything publicly.
6 Questions I Ask Myself:
1. Is this post or topic needful to the Body of Christ? This is my main concern when posting anything that might be considered “controversial”. I personally like the term “weightier” because, by nature, I am not a person that thrives on controversy and confrontation. What I post, I do so because it is of enough concern to me that it outweighs the stomachache that I know will come with it. I constantly remind myself that I have two reasons I do this . . . and that is because I love the Lord with all my heart, soul, and mind – and I love His Word, and the truths contained therein.
2. Have I researched and studied this topic fully? More than being able to talk endlessly on a subject, I try to make sure I have researched it thoroughly. This includes spending much time in the Word. What does God have to say about it?
3. Do I have my husband’s full backing on this subject? I will usually type it up, edit it, and then hand it over to Lowell. Sometimes he says to not publish it – and am I ever glad when I listen to him those times. Other times, he gives it his review, edits it, and then hands it back. We talk and talk and talk. And revise again. Finally, it’s ready for publishing.
4. Is my heart pure from malice or pride in this topic? It is so easy to see someone else’s faults, while my own are much harder to view with clarity. It takes a time of looking at my own heart and repenting of sin, before publishing these posts.
5. Has enough time passed between the idea of the post . . . and the publishing of it? I am a firm believer that posts of greater magnitude and weight should have lots of time allowed for them to develop. Time has a unique way of weeding out the bad, and adding in the good. I never feel right when I rashly put out a post, especially one containing Biblical lessons and truth. Some posts take months between the idea of them, and publishing them.
6. Have I covered this post with adequate prayer? I can’t stress this one enough. Prayer is vital to the Holy Spirit convicting me of sin in my own life, and softening the hearts of those who will hear the truth. If you forget all the other five points, remember this one I consider of utmost importance.
So there you have sat in my chair, stepped in my shoes, and held your fingers over my keyboard. I simply want you to know I don’t do this lightly or flippantly. I don’t do it perfect, either.
Now, if you have courage, all you must do is hit “publish”. . .
Oh yeah. May I have my chair back now?
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Gina says
Thanks so much for your sweet spirit. I appreciate each of these points. They are all important but the point on prayer probably hit me the most. I’m guilty far too often of saying/writing things without prayer. Thanks for your example.
Gina
Kendra says
I know I personally don’t give the Holy Spirit enough credit, and prayer enough importance in my life . . . but I’m still learning! Thanks for your encouragement, Gina.
Kim W says
Your candor and thoughtfulness are appreciated. Prayer is a good prerequisite for all our endeavors.
Kendra says
Amen!
Kim W says
Just clicked on your do you know my Jesus button. Yes I know Him, but do I imitate him in my daily life? That for me is the question. 🙂
Kendra says
That’s the question for all of us!
Karen says
I have sensed your careful attitude about these weightier posts and I appreciate that. I’m glad you’re courageous enough to post even though you know the stomachache that’s coming. I do not feel pride or rash assassination of people coming through – but maybe that’s because I feel the same way you do on most of these issues. 🙂 Keep following the Spirit!
Kendra says
Thank you for the encouragement and feedback! I truly appreciate it. Have a wonderful Christmas!